~H1~

Here we go again. You have forgotten once again how blessed you really are. You are back to focusing on the bad days and the why me’s, instead of all of the that went my way and the life is good days. Why do you do that? Is it really that bad? It never is.

Change your point of view

Nothing is ever as bad as it appears to be. We put labels on everything assuming something is “worse” than it actually is. Ever consider how much time you “waste” complaining about things that you should be grateful for? Ever get your paycheck and before you can even use ONE dime to pay a bill or do anything, you start complaining about how you don’t have enough…. totally forgetting to be grateful for what you DO have and the fact that you could very well be in a position of having NOTHING at all? You’re not alone. Millions of people do it every day.

You receive something and before saying thank you or ‘I am so grateful’, you start poking holes in it…. you start complaining about needing MORE. You just got something. What about that?

Change your thoughts. Change your life.

Happiness is simply a point of view. There is a homeless person right now somewhere in the world THANKFUL for a half of an uneaten sandwich s/he found in the trash and there you are complaining about your FRESH ‘Subway’ sandwich having ‘too much mayo’ — silly example or TRUTH? Are you guilty of that? Here is your opportunity to change your MIND.

Are the things you are complaining about really THAT important? What are you choosing to focus on today? Are you choosing to take everything personal? Are you choosing to THINK that life is against you? Why? What if you accepted and trusted in THIS moment that all was really ok? What if you trusted that no matter what you’re going through, you would MAKE IT through? It makes a HUGE difference.

It’s NEVER that bad…. the ‘worst’ scenario you can ever experience is simply an experience and everything remains TEMPORARY. So, depending on the perspective you choose, you can MOVE out of that space with more ease and much faster. YOU are in charge of how you think and what you think.

Count your blessings…. twice if you have to and change your perspective. Only YOU can do that for YOU!