It’s the old saying “I’m not trying to fall in love. I’m just trying to nut.”
However, not everyone thinks like this.
Throughout the years that I’ve had conversations with my friends in regards to sex, I realized that there are two types of people when it comes to sex. One is the type of people that understand that sex is just sex. They want to get in and get out. No hard feelings. They’re just not looking for anything serious. Sometimes, a temporary release is all an individual needs.
Then there are some people that fall under the category “heart on my sleeves”. They believe that kissing is incredibly intimate. So sex is obviously the icing on the cake that the two of you should be a couple. You sealed the deal. You went to sleep after sex as single people and you woke up in the morning as boyfriends.
But there are some people that believe that sex can be a casual thing. So how do you go about telling someone that casual sex is what it is?
It starts and ends with communication. Let the person understand that nothing is going further past the sex. If they still don’t understand, don’t have sex. Let them out the door peacefully, and you just find someone that does understand that you want to do is have sex.
If you know you’re a “heart on my sleeve” person, but still want to have casual sex, understand those two words to the fullest. If you’re not capable of keeping your heart out of the bedroom for one night, maybe casual sex isn’t something you should experiment with.
